A woman has narrated how she keeps having sex with her ex-husband.
NEWSBREAK reports that in a message to Deidre Sanders of the British newspaper The Sun, where she sought advice, the disoriented woman explained that her former lover “is just using me when he is bored or lonely”.
She said: “Since my husband left, I have kept agreeing to sex with him because I miss him so much. But not only have I not found the closure I need, I actually feel worse — like a prostitute.
“I’m 35 and he is 36. We were married for ten years and I hoped we would start a family.
“Then eight months ago, he told me he wanted to be single again.
“I was devastated and cried myself to sleep for weeks.
“Just as I started to feel better, he called to say he missed me. He said he wanted to talk and invited himself round.
“When I saw him, all my feelings flooded back.
“We chatted about old times over a bottle of wine, and fell into bed. He said this would help us to say goodbye.
“The sex was the best we’d ever had because it was so intense and part of me thought that afterwards he would change his mind and ask to get back together. But he didn’t. And after he had left, I felt empty and alone.
“The next time he called, we had sex again, because I couldn’t resist.”
She added: “It’s now been happening for months, and I’ve realised his words mean nothing. He doesn’t miss me, he is just using me when he is bored or lonely.
“To him, I’m nothing more than a free prostitute. Now I wonder if he ever loved me.
“I feel I’m going backwards, not moving forwards. He keeps breaking my heart over and over again.
“I know I need to break this pattern.”
Responding, Sanders said: “Block him and make it clear that this can’t happen again because it’s destroying your self-worth.”
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