Nigerian celebrity dancer, Kafayat Shafau, recently spoke about her failed marriage with, joseph Ameh, in a recent video on Instagram on Monday night, saying marriage is an alignment of destinies.
The mother-of-two said divorce or separation was not supposed to be toxic or bitter.
“So there was a lot to learn and there’s still a lot more to learn.”
“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be,” she wrote.
“Some people make it back, some don’t. What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!”
“Rather than looking at somebody as the problem, sometimes you could be the problem of that person.
“Being an enabler of someone’s not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space.
Kaffy was married to Joseph Ameh, the music director and former drummer for Nigerian duo P-Square and they have two children together.