Here are letters from chronic cheaters who think they’d probably never stop. You think you’re obsessed with cheating on your various partners? These people will prove you otherwise. Pseudonyms were used to protect these persons’ identities.
Growing up, my dad was vey unfaithful to my mom. My mom would cry herself to sleep and she’d go for prayer meetings hoping that he’d change. Funny thing is that he made it so obvious to her while still being coy about it. One thing I didn’t understand was why he never married any of these women since he was brought up in a polygamous home. Well, I am married now and I can assure you that I never cheated on my wife while we were courting. On our wedding day, I suddenly started feeling like I was about to be tied down in the marriage following the mad fun I had with my friends at the bachelor’s party. At the bachelor’s party, I was taken to a strip club and I met this stripper who found me very attractive surprisingly. Knowing fully well how strippers are all about their business and money, she took me by surprise and straight up declared her interests in me with her mannerisms until she finally said she wanted to get down with me and I turned her down because I didn’t want to cheat on my soon-to-be bride just when we were this close to tying the knot and that was when I realized that I really was getting imprisoned in marriage. Another thing happened, the same girl came to my hotel room on my wedding day and said she was offering me the last chance (if I wanted it to be) to be with another woman before I got married and that was when it all started. I just assumed it was a ploy by my friends because how could she have known my hotel room? I slept with her right before I stood at the altar waiting for my wife to walk down the aisle to me. It didn’t end there. After I started feeling anxious about my marriage with her, I decided to seek more fun and I started dating this girl from uni. She introduced me to her friend and I cheated on her with her friend. At my work place, I started chit-chatting with my colleague who is also married. She said her husband was too rough with her yes, we did it too in the office. My wife is pregnant at the moment with our first child and I’m afraid I’m becoming like my father but I can’t bring myself to stop at this point.
– Evans
My husband was so boring and unfortunately for him, he married a very sexually adventurous woman. I tried talking him into trying out so many things with me but because of his reserved nature, he never obliged any of my requests. In our first five years of marriage, I cheated on him with countless men and even women. I had five boyfriends all at the same time and they were for different reasons and they all thought that the only man that was getting cheated on was my husband. I was hopelessly in love with two of them and I couldn’t decide on who I loved more. [1098689432126655 – Airtel] I do remember going out during the weekends while cooking up stories for my husband telling him I had weekend shifts or I just needed to relax with my friends since I had spent so many nights working – I am a nurse. He never confronted me for once but I noticed one thing, he started reclining into himself. A few years ago, I lost him to cancer and before he died, he looked at me while holding my hands and in that moment, it suddenly dawned on me that he knew. I look at his photos and I’m overridden by guilt. I still linger around men just for fun.
– Adesua
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