Hello Love & Life,
Please is it a crime for a lady to have big buttocks? This is my major problem. I am 27 years old and seriously looking for someone to have a serious relationship with, but all the men that come my way are always looking forward to see or want it. Even for some of them that act sensible at first, along the line my butt becomes the main focus. Is it that there’s no sensible man out there again or I have to deal with all these men who just want to get down with me. It’s heartbreaking.
Hello Anonymous Writer,
I empathise with you over your situation. I know it might not have bee’n easy for you to deal with all the entreaties of men just to discover that they were not truly interested in you rather they sought attention for your buttocks.
It is not surprising that men could be mischievous over the size of your butt, as they prefer their lady to be “endowed.” However, the size of a lady’s butt should not be the major determinant or crux of a relationship by a man.
To tell you to reduce your butt size is out of the way since the men never complained, rather admired it lustfully. The best advice I can give you is that you patiently wait for the best guy who will genuinely care for you. But most importantly, be picky and screen the type of men that you hang out with. It’s very important that you know the character of the men who desire to be close to you. If you don’t do that, you would have to bear the consequences of whatever materialise from the relationship.
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