Hi Yarn Central! In this episode, 6 people share how they got mercilessly cheated on by Lagos men. Now you might be wondering if your own case of being cheated on was worse than anyone’s story but brace yourself for what is coming.
“It all happened a few years ago in Okota, Lagos state, a friend of mine had a girl who he knew for a while. She was light skinned, slender, and pretty with a bit of that feminine spark! Although they weren’t in an official relationship. Somewhere down the line, this dude met another lady with likeable attributes too, and they both seemed to vibe with each other. Granted the first lady he met already had a kid before they met, they found a way to work it out. Though it was a more significant relationship he ad with the first lady, he didn’t get rid of the second lady and this went on for a while. On one fateful night which also happened to be the birthday of a mutual friend of ours, the first girl was invited but we weren’t aware of who did. As the party went on, my friend disappeared from the scene. At this point, the first lady had begun to grow suspicious of his whereabouts so she decided to check on him at home which wasn’t too far from the venue of the party. It turns out that he had managed to slip back into the party with the second lady thinking that the second lady had given up on the party and left for home. But he was wrong because the girl showed up again like G.I Jane. She went into the room where he was with the other girl. At that moment, it was like a fuse had gone off in her head and she literally ran amok and destroyed the celebrant’s cake in the process. Lucky for us, we managed to calm her down and took her home but not without a fight as girl number two sha collected.”
– Dan, 25
“This guy cheated on me and literally had the confidence to show me the women he was cheating on me with. I just want to say that he was very funny but I was the joke. I know that me sef no try because why will you be showing me the girl you cheated on me with and how she acted in bed? That was exactly when I knew he didn’t rate me at all. We started dating when he had just broken up with his girlfriend because we had started falling in love with each other. I knew he had other little girl around him but I didn’t see it as a big deal because this guy was and still is handsome so it was normal for him to have trooping all around him and that was the first thing that attracted me to him. This thing also made me fee lucky because he chose me. We talked about almost everything, our exes and all but things went out of hand when he wasn’t just talking about all his exes but the ones he was meeting recently. I was pleased because we had no secrets between us and I liked that he could confide in me but this my ex got very comfortable. When I traveled to stay with my family who were living in a different state, my boyfriend told me all that was happening in his life. The women he sent money to and the ones he had sex with and it kept piling up. I was too confused and shocked to even ask him why he couldn’t lie or keep quiet like other guys did. We broke up sha. Imagine someone not being able to even hide that they’re cheating on you? That was the highest level of let down for me.”
– Cassy, 26
“My cousin had an affair with the head mistress of the school where he worked, he is 23 and the woman is in her early 40s. The woman already has two children with her baby daddy who abandoned her but the man recently came back. My cousin’s girlfriend is also working in this same school. When the father of her children came back into the life of the woman, they decided to get transparent with each other and the woman told her baby daddy every damn thing including her affair with my cousin. The man couldn’t stomach the information and went straight to my cousin to threaten him saying he’d do all sorts of damage to him. My cousin trying to do damage control stupidly went to his girlfriend to confess to having cheated on her with the school’s head mistress. He did this thinking she’d find out anyway when the man goes to the school to cause a scene so he didn’t want her to find out that way. Unfortunately and fortunately for him at the same time, the man’s threats were empty. The girl got angry and called him all sorts of names and they invited me as the mediator. Well, he eventually resigned from the school and it’ll surprise you that the girl still took him back. Apparently, they’re desperately in love with each other and no amount of cheating will get this particular girl to come to her senses to leave my cousin alone. This cousin of mine stays with me and is still cheating of her with many other women. As we speak, he has another girl at home at the moment.”
– Tolu, 28
What is your story? Leave your comments in the comment section! To read the first three stories, kindly tap on this link How I Found Out My Boyfriend Was Cheating – Lagos Men In Cheating Stories
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