My Fiance Wants Me To Quit My Job Before We Get Married

Hello Love and Life, 

My name is Debbie. I am an accountant. I work with an advert agency in Lagos, while my fiancé works with an oil company and earns almost double my salary. But, I am worried he does not want me to work after we get married, which comes up in two months’ time.    

All my efforts to talk him out of such idea has so far failed. My problem is that I love him and wish we become husband and wife.

Please, kindly advise me.

Dear Debbie,

I consider it a privilege to contribute a word in what you are going through. Since you failed at talking your fiancé out of his wish, I advice you speak to his parents, friend, or any one close to him. Marriage is a process and not an event. Your continued happiness in a marriage is key to its sustainability.   

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